Some Sincere Advice

I want to tell myself a sincere suggestion that the only road to success is perserving in making effort .  I have read a piece of blog saying that the one who wants to grow to be a system software architect should stick to learning by himself for 4 hours everyday after he is off duty.  From this example, you can see success is a simple thing only if you spend enough time in going on the road to it, and indugling yourself in the process to gaining the sucess.

I have remembered that I have ever said that if a man cannot lose his weight, the only reason is that he doesnot have the ability of self-control, except that he may suffer some obesity illness. Controlling your weight is a beginning of a new life, from which you can live a more healthy life by a  proper diet and more disciplined attitude towards life. Today, I stick to the principle that I could eat three or four Steamed Stuffed Buns at the noon, then I feel a better sprit from the fact that I have controlled my mouth. 

 

Self-control is the ability to control one`s emotions and desires, is the capacity of effient management to the future. In psychology, it is somtimes called self-regulation, exerting self-control through the executive functions in desicion making is a thougt to deplete a resource to the ego. Many things affect one`s ability to exert self-control, but self-control requries particularly sufficient glucose levels in brain. How to build sef-control? (1) Analyze your life. See which areas are suffering and which are prospering. If you are failing all of your classes in school, you might need to study! If you are gaining weight at an extreme rate, you may need to sacrifice a few candy bars. You may be pushing yourself too hard. Take breaks over the weekends, even if you are doing wasteful things. (2)Analyze the area in which you are lacking control. If your grades are plummeting, recognize that your study life plays an integral part in the grading system. Read books or articles about the area you are having difficulty with. Becoming informed makes it much easier to make the right decision when you're tempted to overdo something. For example, if you want to lose weight, taking the time to read about nutrition and healthy dieting will naturally motivate you and make eating right much more enjoyable. In terms of gaining self control, knowledge really is power! (3)Act on your analysis. By this time, you have recognized that you are failing school. You have delved further into the problem and noticed that you spend much of your free time doing things other than study or homework. In order to build self-control, you must practice self-denial. Challenge yourself to break your destructive habits. Challenge others to challenge you to break your habits. Lack of study? Tell your mother, father, brother, sister, friend, anyone, to order you to get off your computer after 10 minutes. Gaining weight? Give half of your lunch to your coworker.(4)Analyze your action. Still gaining weight even after making proper diet changes? Try exercising or consulting a doctor. Your grades aren't improving? Try listening in class and reviewing work every other day.

 

And if you feel bored about the life, then you must not spend your time in costing this period of time, and when you feel it is a sluggish thing to learn by yourself, sum up what you have learned and experienced, and continue to do what have been scheduled, according to the plan, then you should have a try to calm down yourself, think about the currently important tasks and how to finish them, and begin to undertake these tasks. Mostly you will get to be insterested in what you would have done as now. Additionlly, if you still feel bored, you should go outside to breathe the new air.

 

Another factor to Succeed is a sharp visual awareness. For example, I came across a problem which I had ever been faced with in a different appreance in the joint debugging phrase or combined debugging phrase of the software development. On that time, I had solved that problem by accident, and had not kown the actual cause to it. However,some days passed, I meeted it unexpectedly again in a more urgent situation. It is said that worries come soon if one gives no thought to a long-term plan and Dont fall down at the same place twice.

 

Today, I have seen a slogan that We share so much together and you alwalys pull me through, thank you for standing behind me in all that I do.  This slogan is printed on a wall by the property developer. This slogan expresses the thankfullness or appreciation to the property owner. I think this slogan must be produced during the time of financial crisis.