10 Things No One Can Steal From You

Of all the things that can be stolen from you – your possessions, your youth, your health, your words, your rights – what no one can ever take from you is…

1. Your uniqueness. – You are unrepeatable. There is a magic about you that is all your own.  Having a low opinion of yourself is not humility, it’s self-destruction.  Holding your uniqueness in high regard is not egotism, it’s a necessary precondition to happiness and success.  You deserve to wear a smile in your heart.  Not because of what you have or what you do, but because of who you are.  Yes, you are changing each day, but you are always amazing just as you are.
2. How you feel about yourself. – It takes a long time to learn how to NOT judge yourself through someone else’s eyes, but once you do the world is yours for the taking.  We have all been placed on this earth to discover our own life, and we will never be happy or successful if we try to live someone else’s idea of it.  So give up worrying too much about what others think of you.  What they think isn’t all that important.  What is important is how you feel about yourself.  Read Emotional Freedom.
3. Your intuition. – If you’re thinking just like everyone else, you aren’t really thinking.  Follow your intuition.  Do what makes sense to you.  Never compare your journey to someone else’s.  Everyone has their ownstruggles, their own challenges, and a different path that they chose to get to where they are.  Remember, you don’t need to wait for external circumstances to perfectly align in order to show up for the life you’ve been dreaming of.  What you’re looking for is already somewhere inside you.
4. Your passion. – If there was ever a moment to follow your passion and do something that matters to you, that moment is now.  Find your passion, whatever it is.  Become it, let it become you, and great things will happen FOR you, TO you, and BECAUSE of you.  And even if things don’t work out as planned, you’ll still be heading in the right direction.  Because nothing you have passion for is ever a waste of time, no matter how it turns out.
5. Your determination. – When life gives you something that makes you feel afraid, that’s when life gives you a chance to grow strong and be brave.  Nothing is permanent in this crazy world, not even your mistakes, failures, or troubles.  If you keep your eyes open and your feet moving forward, you’ll eventually find what you need.
6. Your attitude. – Something nobody can take away from you is the way you choose to respond to what others say and do to you.  The last of your freedoms is to choose your attitude in any given circumstance.  Choose to be happy and positive.  It is not always easy to find happiness in ourselves, but it is always impossible to find it elsewhere.  Regardless of the situation we face, our attitude is our choice.  So smile as you walk away and move on from negative people and their actions.
7. Your ability to spread love and kindness. – The measure of your life will not be in what you accumulate, but in what you give away.  And 99 percent of the time you get what you put in, so give freely.  Charity can be in the form of a smile, lending an ear or a helping hand.  There are many acts of kindness that don’t cost a cent.  Remember, the ultimate goal of all goals is to be happy.  If you want to be happy make those around you happy.  Read The Happiness Project.
8. Your hope. – It’s not the load that breaks you down, it’s the way you carry it.  The biggest obstacles that stand between a person and what they want in life is the will to try it, and the faith to believe it’s possible.  Hope is the little voice inside your head that whispers “maybe” when it seems like the whole world is shouting “impossible!”
9. Your knowledge and life experiences. – Character and wisdom are sculpted over time.  They come with loss, lessons, and triumphs.  They come after doubts, second guesses, and unknowns.  If there was a definitive path to success, everyone would be on it.  The seeds of your success are planted in your past failures.  Your best stories will come from overcoming your greatest struggles.  Your praises will be birthed from your pains.  So keep standing, keep learning, and keep living.  Read The Road Less Traveled.
10. Your choice to move on emotionally. – Don’t let past relationships and old mistakes ruin your future.  Don’t let someone or something that didn’t make it in your life continue to hurt you.  If you do, you’re still giving a portion of your life to something that no longer exists – it’s like letting your happiness slip into a black hole.  Learn the lesson, release the pain, and move on.  Scars remind us of where we have been, not where we are headed.

from:http://www.marcandangel.com/2012/09/21/10-things-no-one-can-steal-from-you/

别人永远无法窃取的10样东西

你所拥有的一切可能都会丢失，包括你的财富、青春，你的健康、诺言，以及属于你的权利！但有些东西则是别人永远无法盗取的……

 

1.你的独特。

你是无可复制的孤本，你拥有只属于自己的全部特质。看轻自己并非谦逊，乃是自我摧残。欣赏自己的独一无二亦非高傲自大，这是走向幸福与成功的首要前提。你的内心有权利永远阳光灿烂——不一定非要占有什么或者做了什么，只因为你就是你。是的，每一天你都在变化，但精彩之处就在于，无论变化如何，你还是你！

 

2.你的感觉。

学会不再凭借别人的眼光审视自己，可能会费时颇久，然而一旦你能做到，世界就已在你掌心。人生在世，是为了体验自己的生活，倘若总是试图迎合他人，将永远无法找到幸福和成功。所以，别再太忧心于别人的看法。他们的看法并不重要，最重要的是你自己的感觉！

 

3.你的直觉。

如果你总是遵循别人的思考方式，就不能称之为真正的思考。追随自己的直觉。做那些自己认为有意义的事情。永远不要与人比较各自的旅程。每一个人都有自己的挣扎、挑战，也会选择迥异的道路去争取自己的成功。请记住，不用按部就班，等待所谓的最佳时机才去追求梦想的生活。你的梦想早已存在于内心深处！

 

4.你的激情。

倘若要在一个特定的时间，才能追随自己的激情，去做那对自己最为重要的事，那就是此刻！发现自己的激情，无论所为何事。让自己沉浸其中，与之共存，你的世界将因此而改变。即使一切未能完全如愿，你也会发现自己已找到正确的航向。因为只要你充满激情去体验，如论结果如何，都有所值。

5.你的决定。

当生活让你感到畏惧时，它同时也赐予你机会去选择勇敢与坚强。在这个日益疯狂的世界上，没什么是永恒的——无论错误、失败还是烦恼。只要你擦亮双眼，继续前行，总会走向最终的成功。

 

6.你的态度。

别人永远无法盗取的事物之一就是你对于外界评论与行为的反应。无论何时何地，你都有权利选择自己的态度。选择快乐和积极。在我们自身发现快乐虽非易事，向别处找寻更是荒谬至极。无论面对何种情境，态度就是我们的选择。所以，带着微笑走开，离开那些消极的人，消极的事。

 

7.播撒爱与善良的能力。

衡量生命的指标并不是你拥有多少，而是你更给予多少。生命中，你所付出的一切，99%都会有所回报。所以慷慨给予吧！慈善可以只是温暖的微笑、倾听的双耳或者援助的一双手。这世界上，有许多的善良是跟金钱无关的。请记住，人生最终的目标是快乐，而让自己快乐的最佳方式则是让身边的人因你而快乐。

 

8.你的希望。

压垮你的并不是存在的重担，而是你负载它的方式。人与梦想之间最大的障碍，就在于尝试意愿的有无以及对可能成功的信仰是否坚定。希望就是，当全世界都向你宣告“impossible”时，内心里那个提醒你“maybe”的微弱声音！

 

9.你的学识和体验。

品格与智慧是随着时间的推进而增益的。它们与失败、教训和成功同行。它们在你经历了困惑、猜疑和未知之后而来。倘若走向成功也有必经之路，那就非此莫属了。成功的种子总是植根于你过去的失败。人生最精彩的故事源自于你经历的最痛苦的挣扎。明日的辉煌孕育在曾经的苦痛之中。所以，要永远昂首挺胸，坚持学习，认真生活。

 

10.你的选择，在感情上继续前进。

不要让曾经的经历和那逝去的错误，继续摧毁你的未来。也别让那未能相守的人和未能如愿的事，继续伤害你。否则，你仍然将自己的生命之舟停泊在虚无缥缈的港湾——就像把自己的幸福推入不见天日的黑洞。吸取教训，释放苦痛，继续前进。伤痕只能提醒我们曾经的所在，而不能决定我们前进的方向。

from: http://article.yeeyan.org/view/335266/321396