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Habits have a tremendous gravity pull, Lift off takes a lot of effort, but once we break out of the gravity pull, our freedom takes on a whole new dimension.

Ready for take off?


Habit one: be proactive.

you are responsible able to choose your response. We have a wide range of concerns, but not all of them fall into our circle of influence.

Proactive people focus their efforts on their circle of influence,  causing the circle of influence to increase; Reactive people focus their effort in the circle of concern. The negative energy generated by that focus causes the circle of influence to shrink.

Anytime we think the problem is out there, that thought is the problem, you can choose your language:

Proactive: I prefer, I will, I choose, I can be
Reactive: I must,   if only, They made me, If I had


Habit 2:  Begin with the end in mind

Identify values -> set goals -> plan weekly -> plan daily.

The key to the ability to change is a changeless sense of who you are, what you are about and what you value.

Is the script you are living in harmony with your values?
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Habit 3:  Put first things first

Things  are so urgent now that suicide is almost obsolete.

The key to time management is not to prioritize what’s on your schedule but to schedule your priorities.

It’s almost impossible to say NO to the popularity of urgent, non important matters, if you don’t have a bigger YES burning inside.

Things which matter most should never be at the mercy of things which matter least”
Goethe.


Habit 4:  Think Win/win


You can only achieve win/win solutions with win/win processes

It’s not your way or my way, it’s a better way.


Habit 5:  Seek first to understand, then to be understood

We have such a tendency to fix things up with good advice, but often we fail to take the time to diagnose, to really deeply understand another human being first.


Habit 6:  Synergize

The whole is greater than the sum of its parts.

When we are left to our own experiences,we constantly suffer from a shortage of data. The person who is truly effective has the humility to recognize his own perceptual limitations and to appreciate the rich resources available through interaction with the hearts and minds of other human beings.

In order to have influence, you have to open yourself up to bé influenced.


Habit 7:  Sharpen the Saw

Read, write, relax, exercise, play, love, get involved, meditate …

“Sometimes when I consider what tremendous consequences come from little things … I am tempted to think … there are no little things”   --Bruce Barton